My first meeting with my partner last Wednesday for the community project was truly successful. I was walking to our meeting place, the Rec Center, with many thoughts in my mind “How do I know who she is?” “How will our first conversation go?” “If she doesn’t want to speak up, then what should I do?”… However, all my thoughts had gone when I met her. When I was walking toward her, it was just like magical! Suddenly, in my mind, I thought “that is her!” and I was sure that she had the same thought as me. “Hi! Are you Cemenca?” I asked (I couldn’t say her name properly at that time - -). “Yes! Are you Jimmy?” she answered (Well, she said my name correctly ^^). That was how we met. Easy going, eager to speak and practice English was my first initiate thought about her.
After brief introductions, we talked more about ourselves. She told me that she was from Mexico and had live in the U.S for 9 years. Before moving to Fort Worth, she lived in Santa Barbara, California. As matter of fact, the cost at California was so expensive compare to Fort Worth. However, California’s weather was much more beautiful than here. Right now, She has worked for TCU for almost 2 years at the residential services. Her main job was cleaning and checking the hallways, restrooms, etc at the Greek houses. She worked from 7am – to 3:30pm. When I heard that, I responded with a surprise voice “Wow! That’s a hard work”. However, s he told me that it was way better than working at the restaurant because she was paid more and had more benefits, etc. She didn’t do anything much after work that was why she thought that this was a good chance for her to practice English and widen her knowledge. Not only for her but also this was a good chance for me to practice and improve my English skills as well. She has been pregnant for 8 months but she didn’t have a name for the boy yet. For a moment, both of us realized that I was so excited about her that was why I was asking her so many questions. Thus, now it was her turn to get to know more about me.
About 10 minutes after that, I started trying to get to know why she was lack of confidence when speaking English in front of people, although her English was truly good. She was telling me her story deeply and slowly that she went to Paschal high school (the one that was right behind TCU). During those high school years, she was teased and made fun of her English ancient. Since then, she was scared of speaking up. However, I explained that TCU students were very nice and easy going. Therefore, “don’t be scare and just talk to them!” I told her with a confident voice. “Everybody has their own accients. I have my own accient as well. So just talk to them and your English will be improved!”.
Then, we was dicussing about what would we do the next day. And finally “Say Cheezz!! Picture time ^^”
About 10 minutes after that, I started trying to get to know why she was lack of confidence when speaking English in front of people, although her English was truly good. She was telling me her story deeply and slowly that she went to Paschal high school (the one that was right behind TCU). During those high school years, she was teased and made fun of her English ancient. Since then, she was scared of speaking up. However, I explained that TCU students were very nice and easy going. Therefore, “don’t be scare and just talk to them!” I told her with a confident voice. “Everybody has their own accients. I have my own accient as well. So just talk to them and your English will be improved!”.
Then, we was dicussing about what would we do the next day. And finally “Say Cheezz!! Picture time ^^”
6 comments:
Jimmy, I think that just talking to your partner is a great way for them to expand their knowledge. Especially if they don't have many other places to practice their English. I know that when I was studying Spanish, I learned more in the few weeks that I was in a Spanish speaking country actually speaking the language, than I did in all four years of classroom learning.
Kate P
Jimmy,
That's really cool that you've gotten to know your partner so well already! My partner and I sort of just jumped into the learning part, but I'm sure that we'll have many more opportunities to get to know each other well. I think it's also really good that you took a picture with her. It seems you've really already established a connection with her. Good job!
Ashleigh
I like this post. My partner and I have yet to really get to know each other (and she missed our second meeting, so I need to call her and arrange a new one.)
Hi Jimmy,
thanks for the wonderful blog, which I enjoyed reading--and the great photo, which I equally enjoyed. You seem to have a great partner to work with, and your different backgrounds fit well, since you know how strange the English language can be. I am pleased that you took the time to get to know each other; this is important. And you are absolutely right about the importance of confidence. This is essential, and making the inevitable little mistakes should not inhibit people from speaking. Thanks for taking the time to post such a nice blog. Best,
Dan W.
I love the picture Jimmy! It sounds like you are off to a good start with your partner!
Hi Jimmy,Have you been able to meet with your partner since this first meeting of 09/16? If there is a problem, please let me know. Dan W.
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